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ART OF GIVING- EMPOWERS LIFE

ART OF GIVING- EMPOWERS LIFE

“Art of Giving” is rather a way of life. The bliss of giving cannot be received through teaching. It has to be felt and realized at one’s deeper emotional levels and that is why it is regarded as one of the most revered human virtues. Mythologies suggest that even before Paleolithic man accidentally discovered fire, there was someone who in order to provide happiness to the human world had sacrificed his own peace and pleasure.

Knowledge is powerful. Knowledge is a tool that empowers and also teaches to control and manipulate. Thus, exchange of knowledge eventually becomes a political battlefield. Knowledge acts as a medium as well as a political device and that is why it should be disseminated and made available for the smooth functioning of the society.

Both giving and knowledge are intertwined. They both sow seeds of spiritual development within the human beings. When the right spirit of the art of giving is mastered, both the giver and the receiver experience bliss at the core. Giving is not just about dissemination of tangible properties but also encompasses sharing of intangible kernels of knowledge. The Art of Giving lies in this moving beyond individual preferences and contributing to the greater integrity of the humanity which will lay the foundation stone for the progress of the entire humanity and liberation of people from their self destructive egos.

ART OF GIVING- EMPOWERS LIFE
GENUINE COMPLIMENTS

GENUINE COMPLIMENTS

Abraham Lincoln had once stated that “Everybody likes a compliment.” And how true was he! We all just love being told we are the best! Moreover even though we always ‘pay’ compliments we never exhaust a single dime yet make the other person happy!

Masters of the art (yes, paying compliments is an art form!) equivocally opine that with the onset of civilized human society paying compliments has become a norm. History is full of stories about kings who hired professionals whose only job was to compose pieces filled with praises of their kings. Of course, needless to say, words of praise are the constant companions of the men of power, men of position and celebrities.

There is a marked difference between flattery and compliment, the former is not genuine and has a personal interest vested in it while the later is a genuine expression of admiration. Though the first one is more commonplace it is the second one that actually dwells in our hearts. Giving compliments always makes the receiver feel happy, grateful, optimistic and valued. But apart from the receiver, even the person who showers compliments nurtures a lot of positive attitudes.

Offering compliments indeed boost one’s self-esteem. It takes genuine understanding to note something positive in someone else and at the same time showing confidence to walk up to the person and appreciate them. And by doing something good as this, even our mind receives a genial feeling. And when the mind is at peace one tends to display a happier temperament and disposition. In fact, genuine positive remarks about others also speak volumes about our own personality and that carves a niche for us in the society.

Leo Buscaglia had once said that “Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring all of which have the potential to turn a life around.” And this, more or less, sums up the secret of a happy life, and being kindness always have the potentiality to turn things positive.

 

 

GENUINE COMPLIMENTS
OFFERINGS OF SUMMER: WATER AND THE “ART OF GIVING”

OFFERINGS OF SUMMER: WATER AND THE “ART OF GIVING”

The Sun is always very harsh in the summer months in the Indian subcontinent. The part of the earth coming in the tropical region with all its diverse life forms including human beings is parched in the summer months. The water bodies dry bringing untold miseries to the thirsty mouths. But life does not come to an end. People still continue with their daily chores, birds still fly and the flora and the fauna discharge their respective duties despite the thirst and the sweat.

Indian folklore is full of stories about samaritans and good souls who always were concerned about the well-being of their fellow human beings. No sooner summer sets in they come forward to serve the heat-ravaged pedestrians and travellers with water and thinned rice gruel. In India, this practice continues to be followed. Moreover, in every Indian household, it is customary to offer a guest clean drinking water to a guest no sooner he arrives.

It is very difficult to pinpoint a specific period of time when this custom started in India. However, the fact remains that this tradition speaks how Indians practised the art of giving. A guest is treated as God’s incarnation and the host does his best to make the guest comfortable, sometimes even starving themselves. The host feels grateful to the guest for considering to visit them.

To this day, we see people opening temporary kiosks to serve safe drinking water and thin rice gruel drink for the thirsty and the poor, on the streets. As the temperatures in the summer months continue to be rising beyond the normal by several degrees, the government organizations have pitched in providing safe drinking water to travellers by putting up such kiosks on the streets. Indian households put large vases filled with water for the thirsty birds and street dogs during summer months and derive great bliss in doing so.

Thus, we find that it is in our culture to be practising the art of giving for community welfare and serving the humanity.

OFFERINGS OF SUMMER: WATER AND THE “ART OF GIVING”
STUDENTS TURNED INTO ECO-ACTIVISTS

STUDENTS TURNED INTO ECO-ACTIVISTS

The 1850 feet tall Mahaparbat Hills (located 50 Kms away from the city of Bhubaneswar in the state of Odisha in India), a detached segment of Eastern Ghats mountain range in India had been lying barren for several years due to unbridled deforestation. Due to the denudation of the hill slopes, numerous streamlets were formed which carried the eroded surface soil of the hill slopes and caused siltation in the flat valleys at the foot of the hill. The siltation affected agriculture in the valleys.

The hilly terrain, however, got a fresh lease of life when in 2007, an educated bachelor in his forties from the nearby Dhansar village, Mr Brajendra Pradhan, took a vow to revive forest growth on the hill slopes of Mahaparbat Hills. A post-graduate in economics and an environmentalist by choice, Brajendra, sought collective efforts from some dedicated youths to make it possible. The mission was not only daunting but also very demanding.

However, Brajendra’s spirits had already been ignited and he quickly organized a team of 20 enthusiastic college students of his village (most in their early twenties by then) and went ahead with his work. The team counselled the youth of the affected villages to lend their supporting hand for this noble cause. As usual, there were many skeptics who taunted the volunteers often. The scenics would hurl offensive remarks and find many faults with the volunteers.

The young activists started with planting environmentally conducive banyan saplings.  Later, they planted miscellaneous other saplings. Small check dams across the streamlets were built by the volunteers to arrest soil erosion using locally available stones. This helped them arrest rainwater for watering the young plants. They also planted enough bush and shrub saplings along the short-spaced contour lines and on the banks the streamlets.

The volunteers also regularly organized various literary competitions among students, seminars and street-plays on environment-related themes to generate awareness among the village folks. Slowly more and more villagers who sat on the fence till date began taking an interest in the work. Brajendra’s indomitable spirit, patience, hard work and strong leadership ultimately helped win the hearts of even the most impenetrable cynic in the village.

The persistent endeavour of Brajendra and his team made the hill slopes of Mahaparbat Hills change its colors in a matter of four years. There were smiles visible in every soul as they heaved a sigh of great relief. Once a barren landscape, the terrain around Mahaparbat hills, now has been covered with nearly 2000 well-grown banyan trees along with 3000 trees of other varieties and they are growing bigger and bigger.

Neither Brajendra nor his teammates were affluent people. But Brajendra’s knowledge and leadership helped in changing the condition of the Mahaparbat Hills. The work, done by Brajendra is an eloquent depiction of what differences the art of giving can do to the human society.

 

 

STUDENTS TURNED INTO ECO-ACTIVISTS
“ART OF GIVING” AS A SPIRITUAL PRACTICE

“ART OF GIVING” AS A SPIRITUAL PRACTICE

One can continue to live a normal life and do all that seems necessary in every situation and yet be spiritual by imbibing the art of giving.

Seeking peace, love and happiness are deep-rooted innate nature at the core of all human beings.  Nothing connects to this core like giving does. The art of giving is synonymous with the art of sharing happiness. The art of giving is all about ego-less giving and giving that leads to the release of strong vibes of happiness between the giver and the receiver.

We can grow our spiritual development through the practice of the art of giving- helping or giving to others, donating to charity, or even volunteering a service. It can also be developed by offering our skills with utmost sincerity and dedication to those who need them. Being more generous in our actions, behaviours and personality will help in growing our personal spiritual development.

“ART OF GIVING” AS A SPIRITUAL PRACTICE